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A pathway to safety, trust, peace & pleasure in your relationship to yourself & others

Relating After Abuse

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Counselling for you

Specialist counselling for victim-survivors of abuse & trauma

 

You choose what we focus on:

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  • Trauma healing & recovery 

  • Sex & intimacy after abuse

  • Impacts on you & your life

  • Relating to people who aren't survivors

  • Supporting & relating to a partner who has experienced abuse & trauma

 

We can address many forms of abuse & trauma, including:

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  • Sexual assault

  • Family/domestic violence

  • Attachment trauma

  • Neglect

  • Developmental trauma

  • Intergenerational trauma

  • Systemic abuse

  • Public/ common assault

  • Incident trauma

  • Workplace harassment

  • Bullying

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General counselling also available

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Online

In-person by arrangement

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Couples counselling

Specialist couples counselling where either/both partners have experienced abuse & trauma

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You can choose our focus:

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  • Working with the influence of abuse & trauma on your relating

  • Sex & intimacy after abuse

  • Specific stuck-points

  • Education about abuse & trauma & common impacts on relating & intimacy​

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Online

In-person by arrangement

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This is not for:

  • Couples who may be currently experiencing/ using abusive behaviour

  • Couples where one or both partners have used abusive behaviour within the current relationship​

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Groupwork

Specialist groupwork for survivors of abuse & trauma

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Reach out to hear more about upcoming groups 

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Support for professionals

Specialist support for professionals who engage with victim-survivors of abuse & trauma

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Professional supervision​

​1 hour support sessions online

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This is recommend for:

  • counsellors/therapists who work with abuse & trauma & want specialised supervision

  • extra support for counsellors/therapists who offer generalist counselling who want to respond safely & effectively to disclosures

  • exploring and nourishing "you in the work"

  • beyond the method: clarifying your unique voice and style as a practitioner

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I also offer debriefing for disclosures of abuse & trauma where your primary role does not address this issue or your role is not therapeutic 

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Therapy Sessions
About me

Hi. I'm Aisha.

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I offer a warm, compassionate and down to earth space for therapeutic growth.

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My current practice is grounded in 26 years of professional experience in the community sector, in various settings, across Warrane/Sydney and Naarm/Melbourne. 

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I am an integrative somatic psychotherapist, relationship counsellor, and mental health social worker.

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I have facilitated education and group programs for victim-survivors, communities, and professionals, in Melbourne, Sydney, Hobart and remote areas such as East Arnhem Land and Kalgoorlie.

 

Based in Naarm/ Melbourne, as a single mum of two incredible teens, I enjoy dance, yoga, meditation, camping, learning to play the drums and surfing.

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At the heart of my work is an unwavering belief in the innate human capacity for healing and growth, and my passionate commitment to social justice.

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Holding hope for the people I walk alongside is grounded in experience and practice.

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Life is relating. To self, to others, to culture, to our environment.

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In our sessions together you will find your path to safety, trust, peace and pleasure in your relationships.

 

Ultimately, I want you to enjoy your life.​​

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My Approach

Life is relating.

Relating to yourself and to others is a challenging journey, within the context of our culture and in relation to our natural world. You were never mean't to face this challenge alone. As a therapist and educator, this is why I am here. 

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How you relate to your therapist is crucial for your healing and growth. So how do I approach this?

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"Aisha, Thank you so much for your kindness and compassion while helping me work through some of my darkest moments. You believed in me, and I feel like you really heard me and understood me when I couldn't find the words...Thank you for being so good at what you do. You have helped me view my trauma from different perspectives and given me tools to see a brighter future"

Sexual assault survivor

Contact

Contact Aisha Jakszewicz to find out more

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E: aisha@relatingafterabuse.com

 

Tel: 0410 503 988

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SMS for a call-back is recommended

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I acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of Country across Australia and their continuing connection to land, water, sky. I pay my respects to Elders past, present and emerging.

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